Home Visit Challenge

Today’s family makeup is like nothing ever seen. The traditional family unit (1 mom, 1 dad, and children) no longer exists in the 21st century and is often the minority in regards to makeup of family units. In my experience, I see a lot of grandmothers and single-parents raising their children on one income.

Taking my wife and her income away and raising my two children alone is unfathomable to me personally, but to my students it’s is called reality. To provide the needs for their children, parents are sacrificing more and more time to make ends meet. Unfortunately, the effect of working late shifts and pulling double employment means parents are not always able to make it to a parent conference, school events, or visit the school house as often as they might like.

But make no mistake, they love their children unconditionally; it just looks different than someone who comes from a privileged home.

“Let’s remember that just because a parent(s) doesn’t come to school 4 events, conferences, etc. it doesn’t mean they aren’t invested in their child’s education or don’t care.” — Jimmy Casas

Building the Parent Involvement Bridge

I was blessed to have one of the most difficult classes I ever taught last year. Echoes of “just wait until this class” came months before they actually entered. A few weeks into the school year, I learned there were students from broken homes and extremely challenging personal situations. However, my Sunday School teacher always told me the Lord provides those situations to those who can handle the Lord’s work.

One day after not getting a hold of a parent after numerous attempts, my colleague and I got into the car and decided to go visit a parent at home. We identified ourselves at the door and got a strange look or two, but we were invited into the home. Sitting on the couch, we shared our vision and how talented this young man was to his grandmother and uncle and asked to encourage him to live up to that potential because his grades didn’t display his true capability.

No negative comments were shared. Our purpose was to trigger the notion we are not giving up on him. To show the child we actually visited their home, we took a selfie in their living room with the grandparent to show him privately during class later in the day.


That child was great from that point forward — for about a week. He displayed he could do everything asked of him, but took ridicule for acting “white” from his peers.

We needed to change a mindset and a learned culture; that is no easy task in any situation.


We revisited that same home throughout the school year sharing positives with grandma and giving hard truths about her grandson’s non-school activities and choice of friends outside of school. She was appreciative of our persistence and wished others would have reached out earlier to her to get him on track.

Throughout that school year, we visited over 20 homes (often more than once) showing a relentless passion for their child’s success. We combatted the anxiety of a white male dressed in a shirt and tie walking into impoverished homes by listening and loving each and every child. Culture and mindsets cannot and will not change over night or even in one school year; however, it took being intentional and learning where are students came from to better meet their social and emotional needs.

Success Criteria

Hearing the phrase you controlled them when dealing with that particular group disheartens me because some look at that as their greatest success. There is still untapped talent in every child at the middle school level, especially that group. Instead, teachers must continue to seeks to understand those tough children and their situation because everyone is different. Knowing those situations offer insight and paths to meet their needs.

Here is our success story from that group:

  • Amount of time out of class decreased significantly
  • Families are believing in our school as well as school personnel
  • Students know, without a doubt, a trusted adult cares and loves them
  • Other teachers want to do home visits
  • Our school set a 100 Home Visit goal because now it is part of our culture

Here are some of the quantitive parts of that same success story:

  • Challenging group earned double digit increases on state assessment in ELA; it was their highest increase since beginning state assessments in grade 3
  • Grade-level average earned marks above the Maryland state average in ELA
  • Over 90% of those students who we made home visits for increased two or more grade levels in reading as measured by iReady
  • Numerous students improved one and two levels on the state assessment

100 Home Visit Challenge

There is no requirement to visit a child’s home in our district, but it made the difference for me personally. I did not fully grasp the level of poverty of my school community because I never took the time to look outwards enough. Now I have taken colleagues on their first home visit and offered words of encouragement to get them to take a leap of faith to spend more time in our school community.

It taught our students and families we cared for them unconditionally, but it also taught my team how to do extraordinary things for ordinary kids. These relationships were an investment as we reinvented our routines of planning times and challenged our school administration to trust we were doing the best for kids.

–Brian Cook, Ed.D.–


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Measure Students on What Matters

As July is headed towards August and now to September, parents are purchasing new clothes with hopes of new successes for their children come the first day of school. Educators are holding onto the last few weeks packing in beach time while reading the newest book with hopes of sparking innovation and practices that can be implemented.

However, there is another group working as well — the 12 month staff. Those are the individuals who work in administration or the ones who are off, but never quite got the memo it is summer vacation. I fall into that category every few years.

Being at school, I have viewed scores from our state assessment on the internal LMS prior to its upcoming release. I’ll admit, the scores were above the state average, but lower than I had hoped — my expectations are always much higher. As I broke down each student’s score as a whole and by strands, I am proud of the growth of this special group of students. I have taught students in poverty my entire career, but this year I made a point to do things differently to combat the challenges thanks to some wisdom from Principal Salome Thomas-El.

Every Child Deserves Someone to be Crazy About Them

Call me old school and conservative, but I miss the traditional home (i.e., mom, dad, and children).  I think it works. The reality was my students were not coming from that environment and didn’t always have two people who were crazy about loving them and ensuring their success. Therefore, my team needed to change its mindset to be the group of people who would do anything for their student.

We needed to know the data on state testing, but understand our intention was not to make great test takers. Our intention was to nurture and blossom young minds. We needed to measure what matters most.

Focus on the right Target

We created a bullseye target this summer. The center is the state assessment, but the surrounding circle is much different than in past years. One of the circles is community values. We often speak of what a kid needs after graduating from our local school. We needs our graduates to be confident about their community, have a passion to take care of their home, and love the history that made it home. One of our service learning projects supported beautification of our school — one of the main social hubs of the community. We planted trees, cleaned up trash, and redesigned the images posted around the school to promote a safe learning environment.

Another target is school values. No where in the curriculum does it say get students to love chapter books, but we want individuals who are passionate readers, who love reading. That’s not measured on our state assessment. Developing empathy for social justice through literature is not listed either, but it’s a value that our school community feels is important.

Growth Mindset

Growing up is tough in a world where someone is not constantly crazy about your success. Educators cannot limit themselves to data points for educational growth. This school year measure the whole child and truly focus on a growth mindset for them personally, socially, and emoitionally.

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